Preferred Name
Age
Marital Status
Location (nearest large city will do)
Explanation of hard limits
A list of soft limits that might be negotiable, in time.
A brief medical history.
How you wish to serve me.
Why you wish to serve me.

When I receive this, if I approve, I will forward a more extensive application for you to fill out.

I will send a picture of me when I receive a picture of you.

Fire

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Positions I am considering:

First, a few notes:
No applicants can be allergic to cats; I have 4.
No service to my husband is expected, but some may be required to have a friendly relationship with him.
I have two rules that govern all my Ds and Ms relationships:

Rule # 1: Open and honest communication is demanded, even if you will be punished. If I find that you are not open and honest, I have nothing to base trust on. Thus, you will be dismissed. However, in return, I will be open and honest with you. This is vital for a good relationship.

Rule # 2: Real life and responsibilities come first. This is true on both accounts. I have a husband and career. And, I understand that most of My submissives/slaves will have lives of their own, usually.

 

Position information:

Female Submissive:
A female submissive, preferably a switch who could serve a Female Dominant (not necessarily a sexual relationship) but who WOULD have a sexual relationship with others that I choose. Predominantly, this means pat and other collared submissives I have at the time. I do not indiscriminately choose sexual partners for any of my submissive/slaves; you would have a say in it. The likelihood of me forcing you to do something you highly object to is low. you would also be a masochist, wanting marks is preferable, but a negotiable point. This would not be a live-in relationship, but if we all fit together (you, me and my Household), it would become a 24/7 collared relationship. you need not be local, but a drivable distance is certainly preferable. Close to Raleigh/Durham is the best situation. you would have to be comfortable having a friendly relationship with my husband.

Service oriented slave:
A male or female slave who truly gets joy from service. Expected services would include cooking, housework, errands, chauffeuring and attending to me (and possibly the Household) in a social setting and at Leather conferences. Knowing protocol (how to kneel, bow, serve beverages, etc.) or a desire to learn protocol is a must. Bonus services would include boot blacking (or leather care in general), extensive website skills (I can do basic HTML as you see here), pet grooming, acrylic nails, pedicures, reflexology, massage, carpentry, etc. Mostly, you should have the desire to watch and learn (or outright ask) what I like. I want someone who actively look for little things to do in order to please me. you must be within driving distance to Winston-Salem, and, if a collar is offered, seriously consider the possibility of relocation. Most likely, this would not be a live-in position (my husband and I just don't have the space right now), but a 24/7 live-close-by, certainly. In time, it may developer into a live-in, but this is with years of service. you would have to be comfortable having a friendly relationship with my husband.

Masochist:
I am a sadist and I enjoy leaving marks, although I don't often get the chance. I am looking for someone who would enjoy more intense play with whom I can explore. This would include (but may not be limited to) flogging, caning, bondage, genitorture, fire play, temporary branding, cutting and needles. This would not include anal play, scat, golden showers, 'oral service for hours' or breath play. We would begin gradually so that I can learn you as well as establish trust between the two of us. If you can make devious toys, this would be a plus!

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A quick note about my husband (jokingly referred to as Mr. Fire). He knows all that I do, but remains, for the most part, vanilla. He knows of my Leather life and, though he doesn't totally understand it, he acknowledges that it is a part of me that I cannot do without.