From as early as I can remember My sexuality, I enjoyed being a tease. I think this was the beginning of the Domme developing in Me, although I didn't know what a Domme was then or that they even existed. I knew that I had a power to make men (yes, men, not boys) want Me.

At the age of about 26, I saw the movie "Exit to Eden". As a comedy and murder mystery, it wasn't all that great. But, what it DID show Me was the world of a Dominatrix. I watched it 3 times, just to see the examples of the BDSM. I wanted to be HER. I NEEDED to be Her.

After moving to a new city and a divorce, both unrelated to BDSM, I began to explore the world of 'The Fire Within'. I even went as far as advertising, screening and choosing a man as My sub. Then, I fell in love. The problem was, it wasn't with My sub, but with a vanilla man I was dating at the time. Totally unexpected!

Out of respect for My vanilla, I put the Domme in the trunk for several years. Then, during a period of reawakening, I began to long for that type of relationship again. My vanilla is now My loving husband and, thank God, he is very understanding of My need. He knows all that I do and has seen Me Scene. His trust in Me has made our relationship deeper, fuller and much more intimate.

Mistress Fire